in love with being in love.

I've noticed more and more similarities between types of people.

Theres the..
"I don't need anyone" type of person
"I don't want to meet people (forever alone)" type of person
"I don't like commitment" type of person
"I fall too fast" type of person
"I never want to be alone" type of person

and basically what gets to me is the fact that IN OUR MINDS, we are believe that you need someone to make you happy and to fall in love. We were taught you fall in love, you get married, start a family... What we aren't taught is the trials and tribulations before we even fall in love.

I believe that as women we have the final say in who we date, who we want to be with. We are the stronger breed, maybe not always physically but mentally. We know what we want, (someone who loves God, someone funny, tall and handsome, someone thats good with kids, someone that is patient... the list can go on)

So why do we settle for less?

I've come to the conclusion that some people are so in love with the THOUGHT of being in love, that they always need to be in a relationship. Whether or not its with their actual dream person.

but why waste your time on someone that you really can't see yourself with. Life is so short. sometimes people say... "life is short fall in love lots get your heart broken and mend it blah blah blah" NO. i say NO. Don't fall in love lots. SAVE IT. for the right person. DON'T get your heart broken lots, that's just being RECKLESS with what God gave you.

we were made to love God and love each other.

But sharing your heart with someone that will appreciate it, love it, and cherish it is different. Of course in the beginning it'll be a puppy love. But that changes, make sure that they love YOU FOR YOU, not who you once were, not who you are going to be. BUT YOU FOR YOU. Sometimes people love the person they once were, or who they're going to be. But that's only going to make a bumpy road for your relationship because your partner will never be who you want them to be. They'll always be who they want to be.

Because if you find the right person, they'll end up being someone that wants to make YOU happy, whether that means sacrificing things, changing their beliefs, they'll want to please you.

I am just blessed and lucky I found that man at the age of 21 and its been a three year short journey but we've both changed to fit the mold for each other.

 LADIES, don't settle for anything less than what you want.
BE WHO YOU ARE, and PROTECT YOUR HEART.

lovelove